Co-parenting can be challenging, but it’s important to always prioritize the well-being of your child – and that includes co-parenting. Here are some co-parenting tips to keep in mind:
Keep communication professional: When talking to your co-parent, maintain a business-like tone as if you were speaking to an HR representative at work.
Change your language: Use terms like “co-parent” or “child’s parent” instead of “my ex,” and say “our child” instead of “my child.” Also, refer to “visitation” as “time with your Mom/Dad” or “schedule,” and use “parenting plan” or “parenting arrangement” rather than “custody.”
Keep exchanges and interactions child-friendly: Avoid discussing adult matters during child exchanges. Keep the conversation focused on the child’s well-being, such as information about the child’s health, homework, or any schedule changes. Keep exchanges and interactions healthy and positive.
Seek resources: Look for free co-parenting resources online, such as Up To Parents, to find helpful information. Review co-parenting communication books, such as, Biff for Coparent Communication: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts by Bill Eddy, Annette T. Burns, and Kevin Chafin.
Consider parenting apps: Explore co-parenting apps like AppClose or OurFamilyWizard, which promote healthy communication between co-parents.
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