Kansas:

  • The default method for child support payments is through the Kansas Payment Center. However, parents can bypass this system by demonstrating “good cause”. A written agreement between both parents to make direct payments usually satisfies this requirement.
  • The court must still receive proof of these payments. In Kansas, the paying parent is required to submit an annual payment accounting to the court.

Missouri:

  • Missouri offers more flexibility. Parents can either use the Missouri Family Support Payment Center or opt for direct payments. Similar to Kansas, Missouri courts apply a “good cause” standard to allow direct payments, especially if they involve an income withholding order for the paying parent.
  • Parents making direct payments must keep detailed records. If disputes arise, these records (e.g., receipts) should be presented to the court.

Benefits of Direct Payments:

  1. Flexibility: Direct payments can work well for parents with a cooperative relationship and may allow more leniency in case of late or slightly underpaid amounts.

Risks of Direct Payments:

  1. Record-Keeping: The paying parent is responsible for keeping accurate records of payments. In Kansas, an accounting must be submitted to the court annually, while in Missouri, receipts may need to be presented if there are disputes.
  2. Conflict: Direct payments may cause disagreements if both parties do not agree on the amount or timing of payments, potentially straining the co-parenting relationship.
  3. Relocation: Moving out of state could complicate the enforcement of the child support order. Courts retain authority over child support unless the order is properly transferred to a new state. If parents fail to do this, it could affect payment enforcement and potentially lead to legal complications.
  4. Distractions from Co-Parenting: Financial discussions might distract from building a healthy co-parenting relationship, which is crucial for the child’s well-being.

Conclusion:

Direct payments can be a practical option for parents with a strong, cooperative relationship, but they require careful record-keeping and trust. If considering this method, it’s important to consult with an attorney to ensure compliance with state laws and avoid potential issues.

 

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